I will make sure to follow the community's practices and expectations.
You already broken the rules for "no beggin", that means you didn't follow the rules, your violation cannot be undone and whatever reasons you have, even if its true, it still fall under the rule of
"no beggin".It was already said and acknowledged by OP, to my understanding, however, it's really up to debate whether to even try to unveil this story for yourself or not go onto a discussion with his email.
I hope for every case like that to be true and resolved with time and effort, however, the reality is sometimes harsher.