Like if I should connect my VPN I won’t be able to do so many things because of the slow network speed but if I wait for everything to load it will work but it doesn’t really come up with the speed it usually does when I’m not connected to the VPN.
Hope it works for you. I wonder if you're using a terrible VPN provider though. Based on my experience any decent paid VPN doesn't slow down your speed that much. Have you tried different VPN providers or switched server locations? Things will be different if you're using a free service since most of the time they don't allocate enough resources for you, hence the limited speed/quota.
Free VPNs, besides having almost no security, are dangerous. I wouldn't use them, and they also slow down your connection a lot. We know that paid VPNs also compromise speed a bit, but when I'm using my NordVPN, I don't even notice the difference.
I've logged into some of my casino accounts with the VPN turned on because I forgot, but I wasn't prevented from using the site when I was accessing it.