There is some truth in what you said, where we ourselves are responsible for our families, not other people, but at least if there is constructive criticism, it is not wrong for us to listen to it, for matters of implementing it, that is a secondary matter in my opinion, at least we respect the person we are talking to as long as he does not corner us at the lowest point in a situation
But if we have been able to apply good approach and are able to gamble wisely but there are still other people who talk or think badly about the gambling activities we do, can it be called constructive criticism, we have been able to get past all that and criticism is not needed here.
In reality, everything that will be talked about is about bad things and we cannot just consider all of that as something easy to accept, it is better not to care and not to listen.