About 2/3 of the way down of his pics he gives a good example using the addnode=IPADDRESS and listenonion=0 commands
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Thanks again, this will help, and I will wait until its fully sync'd before adding. I do see once the number jumps to 11 connections then drops back to 10 in a short while? Did you add the "listenonion=0"? if so what is the reason for that?