I want to use Sparrow wallet (desktop) and Bitcoin Keeper (mobile). Now I don't want to trust them as anything can happen with these projects, so I use it in combination with hardware wallets (jade). This works like a charm.

If I want to receive bitcoin I click on the receive button and the software generates an address. My question is, how can I validate that this address belongs to my seed? Right now, in this whole receive part, the hardware wallet is not involved. I have not heard so far anyone about this, so maybe I miss something.