P.S: If I were shasan, I would have already started actively finding out the location of the OP and preparing a statement to the police. I feel it smells like some kind of deception. And that OP won't return any money to you.
A little care for someone does not take anything from your life. You can be negative in everything, your life, your philosophy. But in this forum we have many examples where we truly cared for each others. Regarding shasan's money or anyone, I am sure there are ways, there are no need for police and legal actions.