seeing from several cases of people it is not uncommon for many parents to regret losing some memories of life just because of their focus on money without paying attention to their surroundings.
Whatever you choose, you will regret in the future.
When you choose to chase money, you will have money, but you regret because you not spend a lot time with family.
When you choose to spend a lot time with family, you will get love, but you regret because you're poor and single while most of your friends already rich and have been married.
For me, if I were to choose, I think I will go with money first because I believe that when I have a money, I can connect with the people easily. So, I can have two good things at once. Choosing family is okay and in fact, you still can chase your dreams afterwards. It only needs some balancing.
There are people who doesn't value money a lot, so being poor is not a big deal to them. Also, it is possible to have a girl/boy and make family, even though you are not rich. There are plenty of it in a poorer country but it is just that our girl/boy and kids can only suffer if we can't sustain their needs properly, so a broken relationship is also possible to happen.