So what if I want to sent a certain exact amount INCLUDING the fee?
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The receiver should not pay the fee
That only happens when you use "
Max" amount.
When toggled, the max amount will automatically be adjusted by the fee that you set.
Otherwise, the amount should stay as it is and the change's amount will instead be adjusted by the fee.
Similarly, you can select a few UTXO using coin control feature and use Max .
It will work the same way but it won't empty your wallet.