1. You should probably start listening to your family; they have your best interests in mind and your parents have much more experience than you.
2. Muslims can get married for free. No Imam is going to demand money for performing the service and if she insists on a wedding that you can't afford, she's not the right one.
3. Your story isn't any more believable than any of the others that get posted in this section to gain sympathy, and Facebook can't be cited as verification.
4. No one here will loan a newbie money without valid collateral.
I have already answered most of your question already. I am 22. I have the right to choose the person I am going to spend my rest of the life. Not they are going to spend.
Not here to gain sympathy. I said all the issues here to find a solution.
And do you know the term "court marriage" and "dower"? I guess no. Look for it, you will find your answer.