Like I said, this is usually in good nature but I actually despise this “balato” culture we have. A lot of gamblers lose their earned money from doing this. I too would want to treat the people I love when I have the money but doing too much would result to money loss. It’s not being selfish, it’s just being smart.
What about you? Do you also often treat others when you get good money from gambling? Or you also think that there are better ways to spend the money you got from gambling?
People will think that gambling money is a free money but the truth is that nobody will give a damn about you when you are losing money, people will even call you names for gambling but as soon as huge amount of money is involved in your hands, everyone will want to be your friend. Personally, I think it's normal if you give money to people you care for but if you win a big amount of money and you refuse to give anyone money, it wouldn't stop you from winning the next one or stop your loss from the next one.
I will rather use my money to help the less privilege people, like who are seek, people are can't feed and people who are struggling to pay money for treatment than do anything society thinks. If it's easy and they want free money, they can try gambling and see if they can be lucky to win money too, some people that always thinks they are entitled to free money don't appreciate those money, it's better they have a taste of their own world they live in.