trying is the initial key to success that we live, although sometimes the results are not according to our expectations, at least we have tried and continued to make the efforts that we are able to, with good intentions and determination to change the situation, and it needs to be done by requiring someone's guidance, it is very necessary to make the efforts that we live successful.
What you said is indeed very reasonable and true, but everyone must first have the intention from their own heart to be successful and make small changes that can influence themselves to continue to struggle through efforts that they are able to do well before going to someone who is able and willing to guide them to be successful. Because the level of success of each person is always different and always different even though the efforts they have made are quite maximum, but everyone must always be more consistent and not discouraged when struggling because the final result is always determined by our own level of perseverance personally.
While people who want to guide us in certain matters will only provide good direction and what we are able to do because that person is not the main driver in the efforts we make even though that person also cares about what we do. So the main driving force is ourselves, which must be started with a strong intention and a clear mind when we start and never complain about the results we get after we struggle with our own ideas and skills.