I don't deny what you say but we need to adapt to the current life instead of complaining or fighting against it. Because there is nothing we can do to change the minds of the masses or reverse what is happening, and if we do not want to be eliminated from society, we have no choice but to adapt to things.
If you are married and have children, I believe you will get rid of those thoughts in your head and become a part of today's society. You will rush to make money regardless like everyone else because without money, not only you but also your children will have to live miserable days. Life gives us no choice but to adapt to every change.
Seriously. Whether you are married or not, money is very important in our lives. All the things that the op mentioned, I believe that if there is money, they will be achieved, so why won’t people look for money? The society focuses on making money, and for you to be able to live a normal life like other people are doing, you must adapt to what the neighbourhood is doing at that time; if not, you may regret your action, especially when it comes to how to be successful in life.
So the thing is that even if you are not married, for the sake of your siblings and parents, you need to find money the same way the society put money first.