I have a new perspective towards what it means to keep things private. I am thinking that keeping things private does not always mean keeping things to yourself. Before you criticize, I know that to have someone as trusted as that is rare and almost impossible, but they still exist, and sometimes you can find that person in your spouse. If you can share important details like passwords of bank account or safe, or grant them access to important documents, should we not also be able to trust these people with access to our bitcoin wallet?
I think that's how it should be, at least I see it in my family where my father doesn't hide anything from my mother, moreover he says that he wants his wife to be aware of everything, in case something happens to him, so that she can provide for the children.
In fact, we are already getting older, I study and work, so I no longer demand that my parents spend money on me, I even sometimes try to visit them and bring food. But I understand that this is an ideal family model, and it often happens that spouses have their own secrets and I also often see how things come to divorce, so I do not judge some people who are ready to keep everything a secret.