Your money, your rules. However, if that chance is given to me, I will still be giving some balato to those who are close to me knowing it's already a tradition here in our community. As long as it's not against my will, I will reserve some of my winnings for it. The rest I will invest and help my family as well financially.
Exactly our rule is our money and we can't do anything out of our control, therefore if it a tradition that has been the culture of our country what more, I would have no options rather than fulfilling it otherwise who knows there may be consequences for not carrying out the traditions as it's demand. You know many people despised their traditions due to their religious beliefs and put away their culture.
Just like both of you mentioned it's your money now after winning and there's no one who'll going to push you whatever you want to do about it, if culture dictates then you following it might be the best way just go with the flow, but for sure not all gambler follow that kind of tradition some may not generous to share their earnings.
They just going to use it and enjoy every single penny that they've managed to cashout, they are not willing to give anything to anyone jsut taking it and use it to enjoy.
That has a lot of power, if we stop to look , thanks to that things come and go, whether good or bad, it is said that not only because of gossip a person can be destroyed in case they know and their self-esteem is so bad that it can Affect , in games of chance things are and can be that delicate, in fact, we must be very cautious when it Comes to money, so if you win and want to share to receive good Reviews and sometimes even the worst of vibes , the people must be prepared for that, because not everyone is good.
Seeing that I'm today's world, not everyone is genuinely happy when they see or hear about people winning is enough reason to protect your winnings and sometimes Don't even share because you never can tell exactly who is happy with you and who is going to be that enemy you need to stay far from so they don't get a chance to unleash their hate on the winner such that in some cases it may lead to a very severe case that both the gambler and casino may not be able to contain.
That's for sure, better to keep your money as there are many people who's going to be there when they knew that there's possible free money if they seek or ask for something, I guess keeping yourself away and not to allow them to bother you for asking for some charity, it's yours and it's your decision whether to share it or not.