Yes I understand what you mean but unfortunately when someone is already very obsessed with something like gambling then it is very difficult for them to restrain themselves at least a little bit like for example still having the thought of separating some money for other needs that are much more important, most of them spend it all to realize curiosity and beliefs that are based on the drive of emotion, if they could cancel the bad action then it should not have happened, aggressive gambling would not have happened, but as we see that as time goes by they become more and more reckless, and this is why experience is called the best teacher and this is also the reason why in this world there is something called regret, when you are still single then yes of course aggressive gambling may only affect yourself but when you are married then it is clear that it is the same as you exchanging your children's food rations with gambling.
Yes, things tend to be complicated when you are at that level of addiction, whenever people are very obsessed with the game, those things tend to come out, therefore when a person with so much responsibility has to do so many things and has so many commitments, he must be responsible and respond as much as possible with himself and for his family, it is the most important thing, there is no other way.
If the person puts the game before his family, then things will be very bad because that is already a lack of personality and responsibility, that is what we must see.