Each family will really be that different on which this is really that indeed there are those members who do help you out without questions asked as long you've been on a hard situation then they will really be making up such act which in compared into some family members on where that instead on helping them out they do rather bashes and blame instead on which this is really something that give out that bad feeling. Speaking about winnings then this is something that will be depending into someones plan whether they will be making it use on a good way and something sustainable or they be buying tons of things that they do really want to buy.
Actually its our full rights on what are the things that we do want to do but make it sure that this is something worth for you.
Yes, family is really like a lottery, one never knows if one got the best or the worst, but in terms of help in terms of money it should be done because it comes from the heart, I am not that hard-hearted, if it is a member of my family and needs help and if I have money, then I help without further ado, it is like you say, some help without asking, but others who see that a relative is dying and need money to save them to perform tragic surgery, well, they prefer to see them die than to help them, humanity is with that heart in the end, everything is a decision and this is what separates the good from the bad.