While challenges do make people strong, a lot of people go through which others can't even imagine, more than 1 million people living in extreme poverty. No matter the scenario, everyone's struggles are real. Comparing problems develops perspective, but making everyone trivialize their problems is not it. Resilience might sound like a great component, it often needs support and some resources to grow. While reflecting on others' difficult circumstances helps us appreciate all that we have, it does not mean that we will not focus on our self-improvement without guilting ourselves.