That is because you know how to treat gambling as well so you can feel relaxed, enjoy and excites you. But other people will not do the same as you and even many of them lose control while playing gambling so it is difficult for them to enjoy the gambling games. That is not as an escape for you because you can use gambling with right and only for have fun and fills your spare time. But those use gambling for other reason, they will think that gambling is an escape from their main activities and they are vulnerable from the other problems that can occurs.
You're right, although at the beginning when I started in the game everything was very difficult because for me it was spending and spending to win, it was very hard to start because I lost a lot and I didn't get the hang of anything, and according to all those bad experiences, one gains some expertise in the game, I don't deny that I also won but it wasn't much, it was more than what I lost than what I managed to win, then the liking for slots came out alone because at first I didn't play slots since it seemed to me that it was losing money in a very simple way, but it was because of betting a lot from the beginning, well, a series of things that make you mature in the game until you understand many things.