This is why it's good not to store all your bitcoin in one wallet. It's better to use two wallets, you keep the large amount in a seperate wallet maybe a cold storage and keep some amount in your online wallet, so that when such thing happens like this, you can show them your online wallet.
It's not advisable to declare all your bitcoin hodlings to anyone by force be it your family members. What of those his brothers that are into physical earnings, did they declare all their asset and funds in the bank to the family?