OP, you are a hero member, opening a thread because someone left you a neutral tag is unacceptable to me. That is what a newbie should do, please don't promote the act.
This forum is all about having a thick skin--if you plan on being a member for any length of time, that is. Things have been relatively quiet for at least the past year in terms of drama, but when it heats up or it starts getting personal? Yeah, just let the small, inconsequential stuff slide right off your back.
I'm speaking in general terms here, not to you specifically, uchegod-21. There are a lot of newcomers here (and older members who should know better) who don't realize how prickly a place this is.