I just wanted to make sure everything is OK, so I guess "peace of mind". And I did waste some money for two transactions, yeah. Paid dollar or two. I'll know better next time.
As already recommended, use mempool.space for your fee guide. See their "Medium Priority" sat/vb for transaction fees, check the upcoming blocks too (left side) if what are their fees so you can see when your transaction will go through if you spend below the recommended fee (Medium Priority), this is to avoid over paying for your tx fees.