Still, I believe statistically speaking, those couple who reunite after a divorce are a minority. The rule of thumb when comes to divorced people is they usually end up being happier initially, because they could not stand to continue to spend their time with one another, those who really suffer the consequences of divorce are children, who sadly become part of the conflict between both ex-spouses.
It is wishful thinking will automatically learn something from getting divorced and realize they had a better live when there was someone they loved in it, stubbornness and selfishness are very strong flaws which cannot only trash a relationship, but also keep that same relationship from having a second change to blossom.
I have not experienced divorce but I have had some relationships that I regretted breaking up with the individual. Sometimes you think that you can get better treatment from other girls and you begin to feel that you are not getting the best from your present date. But after a breakup, you finally discover that you were having the best time in your past relationship. There is a saying that says that you will not know the worth of what you have until you lose it.
At this point, you will be regretting your actions and want to reconcile with your ex. If you are fortunate to have her back in the relationship you will cherish it and do all you can to keep it. I believe that people who regret their divorce might end up coming back and having a good marriage because they have realized their mistakes.