Marriage is often romanticized, but the reality is far more complex. Many couples enter marriage with little understanding of how to navigate conflicts, communicate effectively, or manage shared responsibilities. So, what kind of marriage education do we actually need?
First, we need practical tools—not just fluffy theories. Think conflict resolution skills, financial planning, and emotional intelligence training. Second, real talk about expectations.
The best practical tool before marriage is going into courtship relationship because in it you don't only realize how much your partner meant to you but you will also learn how to resolve conflicts between you both, actually there are important factors I consider in courtship because from courtship you would no if you can spend the rest of your life with the person or not, there are people who fall in love at first sight and are willing to get married but courtship show them the reality face of marriage and it becomes unbearable to some, Actually talking about expectation doesn't educate the both in marriage because you can have expectations but lack tolerance, so for me tolerance represents 40 to 50 percent in marriage because that's what will make you to become adjustable to your spouse so you can how courtship can educate you to unravel some of the mystery in marriage.