Stop relying on someone if you want to be successful, except you're a woman which mean your mentor is your husband.
There's no one want to help other people without any benefit, why someone need to take more responsibility if they can just use their free time for me time, entertain or making more money?
If you're searching for a mentor, you will be high likely get a fake mentor or fall into Multi Level Marketing business.
There is a potential doom to fail if you don't believe on yourself but relying on someone else.
The question to be asked is how long would you keep relying on someone and what if the so mentors advice fails, are you regretting it or you are giving it a second chance to keep guiding your ways?
The ultimate source of becoming successful is rested on your possession and capabilities not on other people.