First of all, i don't think I have a woman in my life that could go to an extent in spending what I have behind nme on worthless items you've mentioned, I can't also make any spending on any of the above listed when I know my crypto portfolio is empty, one must know how to create a balance between the two in other for him to enjoy life, his relationship and have enough assets that are profitable altogether, but it's unfortunate that some are been led by their wife, or girlfriends in a relationship and they have no control or obligation against anything they were being told, either good or bad, that is why the consequences at the end will also affect the two of them when they lack source to earning money.