You should be intelligent enough to control your wife. And by intelligence I mean Light. If you have alot of it your wife will be under your power, and will see you as her master and fully submit to you.
Ofcourse this light only comes from the CREATOR.
did you say control? Who wants to be controlled? Even an animal gets tired of being controlled and most times retaliate. Why would you want to control a human? She sure would get tired one day and try to gain freedom. The moment she sees your control as caging and not care anymore, you become out of bounds. I don't think that marriage to be healthy.