Marriage is not a video game where to fail and restart again and you expect to do better the second time, no. Marriage is something that one's you're in you're in for good and it only takes a man who has control and patience to handle the situation at home, the problem of the family can make a man lose it and choose to divorce the woman, true some women are the cause of some of the issues that happens in the family but that is why we need to date first before marriage, is like getting to know your future partner first before the real deal. And I agree with you, these days divorce occurs more than back then when our forefathers used to get into marriages, you can see a man with 5 wives living in peace without hatred but now just 1 or 2 wives will give you a problem bigger than the problems we have in the society and the man will find it hard to even go home from work, these are factors that lead to divorce so I'd say patience and self control is the key.