Memories are life corrective, detective and shaping tool. Although some memories hunts and brings people down when ever they remember them, but the same destructive memory can also become a strengthening tool when it can be controlled by the people. Life is full of ups and down, the most important thing one must learn is not to allow bad memories bring you down but rather use it to correct your present so the our future can become a successful one. Memories should be used for structuring and not retarding force