their actions made me carried away by the current like borrowing money which is often done, borrowing from me until the money is not returned. Collecting my debt obligations finally made me give a solution that was not heard but it was in vain. I just gave up my money did not return and there was no more communication relationship the best way to not be carried away by their big current again. I did not force them to stop their pleasure because that is each person's business, it's just the effect of their future without introspection
borrowing is a tricky thing
when it comes to borrowing to gamble the advice is: NEVER DO IT, it's never a good idea
when lending to friends just remember that this can ruin your relationship
one of the only moments when it makes sense to borrow imo is if you can get low rates and invest into something at higher rates.