emotional intelligence is not enough to keep marriage in this era where gender equality continues to disturb marriages and couples from a broken home unites together bringing the issues they have in their homes to the family they are just creating. social media has equally done her part dishing out false narrative on the expectation of the parties involved in marriage making it very unrealistic and at the end divorce becomes the soft landing spot. as an husband, you just have to be yourself, do your part and don't have an unrealistic expectation from both your wife and children a lot has changed about life.