Yeah we're fucked up.
Many people consider chit chat as wasting time and wasting money because you need to spend your time to meet them and you will buy something to eat/drink. If we chat them using cell phone, we don't have to spend any money and we can reply them whenever we want, cost effective and efficient.
Now human relationships are about searching for jobs, getting recommendation, searching business partner, collaboration etc all about benefit orientation.
No one cares with the souls, we're just one from 8 Billion people in this world, if we die then so be it because
everyday there are around 150K people die and there are always new people born, so we only need to search new people instead.
Not every situation that required to be disclosed to people, so when someone in dip situation they always pretend happy to others, however opening up to the situation to some persons can even be a bad idea because it will become a news trend were a lot of ears will have it.
I agree.
When someone is sharing his bad story, problem, etc, people will take it as negative vibes because when they heard someone else problem, it distract them to be productive which decrease the chance for them to make more money.
The more you share your bad story and problem, the more people will avoid you because they see you now as their problem.