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Basically like a proverb that "experience is the best teacher" and it is true because by making experience as a lesson then we will know about what we should do so that we can be better, if in gambling it means that we no longer experience defeat in too large an amount which means we have to limit several things such as the amount of budget, time to gamble and also maybe with your expectations of victory and when you can learn from experience then I am sure it will not be difficult for you to change everything for the better.
As you said that when a gambler succeeds in making experience as a lesson then when they experience a significant loss they will not dare to try harder to pursue recovery because they know that it will only bring them to a much worse situation and will prefer to minimize all their actions and decisions, but to be able to achieve this kind of thinking I think a gambler must have good self-acceptance first.
In order for us to be more controlled and also more responsible in gambling, of course we must be able to learn from what we have experienced, and make it as an evaluation material, so that we do not repeat the same mistake a second time, a mistake that only leads to loss and addiction.
However, what needs to be emphasized is that we should not only learn from what we have experienced, or from our own experiences, but we must also be able to learn from the experiences of others. Because that way, it can help us to avoid all the risks and losses that have been experienced by others. Because isn't it true that to be able to feel the pain of falling, you don't have to fall first?