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Board Gambling discussion
Re: what your wife or girlfriend thinks about your gambling habits?
by
laijsica
on 06/03/2025, 10:32:07 UTC
is it ok for your family to know that you are gambling?
or you don't share at all and keep a secret about it?

how is your experience on telling the person you love about your gambling habits?

It depends on the lady in particular. Some are skeptical about anything gambling. Some their husband, family and or friends has a gambling office.

If the woman is just a girlfriend maybe it won't be a problem if you are honest about your gambling activities, because anyway she may thinks everyone has the right to live a life including in terms of seeking entertainment, but when the woman sees a more serious life in fostering a household of course she will be angry although she may also have gambled, because in the household of course finance is a major factor besides love, Because if she marries a gambler of course eventually their life will be chaotic later that's why maybe women are more inclined to dislike men who are drunkards and gamblers,  if you want to tell your wife and family about your gambling activities, I think you need to think 10 times to do it because sometimes your honesty can lead to the destruction of the you household.
But i think even if girlfriend is loyal she will never support her boyfriend gambling habit, because mostly people’s treating it’s a very bad thing and it’s kind of criminal offense. On the other hand wife and your family members will go against it very hardly, because they know that here you can lose money, so they dislike it and they want to protect you from big losses.
Yes, if your lover is completely devoted to you, she will not support you in losing money but she should support your freedom to have fun. Gambling is good if you can control yourself and manage your money in such a way that even if you lose that amount of money the impact will be limited. It is probably better to hide your gambling activities from family members especially those who are conservative. Depending on the country and situation it may be customary to involve family members in gambling but I think gambling/betting should be limited to yourself. Things should be considered differently for close friends. They may influence you to become a positive parent due to the possibility of excessive addiction.