Losing big money in gambling is like a trap, which is that the more you lose, the more you are ready to bet to win back. If it reaches the point where you have to borrow to pay off previous debts, then this is already a critical situation, in which stopping is a mandatory condition for getting out of this situation. The most important thing to remember is that there are no unsolved situations in life, and the sooner the player decides to take this break, the easier it will be to think about the situation and find ways to solve it.
OP, you have explained very nicely that gambling is a trap! There is a possibility of losing a large amount of money from a small amount of money. If a gambler does not control himself after losing a small amount of money, then he will gradually lose a large amount of money. And if he has to borrow another to pay off one debt, then that debt never leaves the person. So take gambling as gambling, not as entertainment. Give yourself a break, take a break; that is how you can do good.