Will repeat OP question but in other words: "Who would be happy when he is losing?" Really, who would not feel disappointed after losing or failing. I believe there is no one who will shout "HOORAY!!!" when he has lost any size bet. In addition to what is already said, that it is ok to be disappointed as we are humans and express different emotions, it is normal to lose in gambling. Impossible only to win, a life can not consist only from victories or happy moments.