School life was pretty sweet for me, honestly. If I could, I’d stretch those campus days forever. But then again, that would just shift the burden onto my family. Work? Well, that's the responsibility of a 'grown-up,' but here I am, a failed adult. My job doesn’t contribute a thing to society. The most I can do is make sure I’m one less person claiming welfare.
As i read the post, i can feel the pain of a child that was born in a poor family. I feel you, we have the same situation.
Those campus years are really a moment to cherish, specially if you have a lot of friends to spend time with. But you cant as you need to finish studies as fast as you can to help you r family or atleast to lessend their burden in money thing. but now that you are done in your school your job is not that good that can giuve you a good life, am i right?
You need to be out of the bottle, it is not the money that you can earn or the job that you have 100%.
You need to accept the situiation and work for it. your job is the hellp that you have! make a living with the money you are getting on that.
You cant force life but you can get out of that in no time. 70-20-10 is the advice in living life but if you can do the 60-10-30 will be the best and faster.
100 percent is your salary.
60 percent is you needs, you will spend 60% of your salary for your needs. including bills.
10 percent for what you want and that is the most important part of this as wants can destroy us.
30 percent is for the savings, you need to save a lot and once you have money you can start business.
You cant choose a life with out money, you should live on waht you can and do everything for you to change that.
I feel you bro, wishing you all the best!