It is never wrong to decide to spend your own bitcoin if you so wish, it's your money, you bought it, speeding bitcoin also means transacting in it, it's also a means of supporting the blockchain activities.
We make money to spend it on giving ourselves a good life, if after acquiring a lot of bitcoin and you don't spend it on yourself once in a while, you suddenly die, what do you think will become of the bitcoins?
We buy something like bitcoin by knowing that we can sell it in future.
Buying and selling is a pair that supports each other and if there is no seller, we can not be a buyer to purchase bitcoin. If I bought bitcoin, I hope that I can sell it when I need money in future, and I will never buy bitcoin if I know that I will not be able or struggle to sell it in future.
When I need to sell bitcoin, I won't hesitate to do this and I won't regret about this. If I plan to not sell my bitcoin, I would have reserve my money in cash for using and making sure that I won't sell bitcoin in my Bitcoin portfolio.
The honest truth is that we buys bitcoin for income sake, we store our financial values on bitcoin for future use so, when it is a due time to sell, there is every necessity for that and it even if we uses the acquired bitcoin to make direct payments, it still serves as form of money.
So, the need of owning bitcoin is as equivalent of owning a cash in terms of goods and services purchases. So I don't expect to see myself owning bitcoin and still crying out for money to solve my need when my staked bitcoin is also money.