I've just voted in the poll with trusting nobody. This shows ppl aren't going to trust others to keep our money or property safe by giving them to others to protect to give on to our families after our death. Don't trust anybody. Don't trust banks & lawyers to keep your seeds. We should tell our families about passwords & seeds while we're still alive.
You said don't trust anyone but you also said to tell your family the password or seed while you are still alive. And if you are still alive why should you involve or trust a bank or lawyer because as long as you are still alive everything is still under your control including your family.
You should only tell people you trust and I totally agree if that is the purpose of telling your family and if you already have a wife then your wife has the right to know after you really have the right time to tell your wife after you have lived a very long life with your wife and also you believe that your wife is your life partner until you die and she has the right to continue your ownership to continue the life of your wife and children. So that their lives are good especially in terms of finances and for their survival, and the rest is up to them the most important thing is that you leave something very good after you are gone and I think everyone is like that because after someone dies any relationship will be broken, and only prayers and alms are addressed to the deceased and that's all that is needed.