I've just voted in the poll with trusting nobody. This shows ppl aren't going to trust others to keep our money or property safe by giving them to others to protect to give on to our families after our death. Don't trust anybody. Don't trust banks & lawyers to keep your seeds. We should tell our families about passwords & seeds while we're still alive.
There must be someone in the family who is trustworthy and suitable to hold the seed. If we give our seed phrase to someone else due to lack of trust, there is no guarantee that he will return the seed phrase or transfer the asset. That is why I think it is best if the seed is given to the family. I think it would be a good idea for a Bitcoin investor to give a family member a basic idea of how to hold Bitcoin or how to transfer it. Because in the absence of one person, if someone in the family does not have a good knowledge of that, they will not be able to use that asset properly. They must be responsible for others. That is why the seed phrase must be given by trusting someone in the family.