The problem of seeds is obviously crucial. Can we imagine being the one and only person who knows what to do with these 12/24 words? How to keep them safe, but also how to pass them on to heirs or friends (so that they know what to do with them?). Informing others while preserving your own security can be a real challenge in some countries.
And then there's betrayal, divorce etc...
What are the solutions?
NOBODY!Even im a married person on which i cant really still that trust up my seed phrase into my wife. Yes, i dont have any plans on having divorce or trying to solo these money on which everything is really that being done for the sake of family and giving them a good life. I cant really just that make myself that trusting up that much on which it comes into a point that i would really be that trusting up my seed on which we do know that temptations is really that could happen specially if the amount will really be that significant. I do trust up my wife but there are really things on which are meant to be hidden or shouldnt really be that told. So far i dont have any problems on keeping away my seed as long it is really that out from other peoples awareness then it should really be just that fine. We do know that how important these seed phrase would be and its always been best that you should really be that wary and giving out that outmost security because once it will really be that someones awareness then there's always that tendency that you would be having that risks on losing those precious coins of yours that you've been holding for so long.
I understand what you are saying, there are some things that do not need to be told to your partner in this case is the phrase seed wallet especially in a marriage that has not been long. Because husband and wife can divorce, but if you have children, it is better for you to trust your children more for the future. At least if at this time you cannot be trusted, then you have to give them time so that they can be trusted because someone in this life, there must be someone who can be trusted especially in our family.
Because if something unwanted happens, for example death. The wealth that we have is not in vain but has benefits for the family, because we cannot predict when we will die, living people will definitely die. Maybe I also predict that many people out there have principles like you, and I am also sure that there are some people who have died but their wealth cannot be accessed. So we really have to have one person who can be trusted especially children.
Indeed, never give the seed wallet phrase to anyone, because one day it could backfire on us. But rather than not trusting anyone, why don't we try to educate our wives or children so that they can be trusted or become people who can be trusted when we give them the wallet seed phrase.