I guess it's human nature. Nothing against women, but they do tend to favor security in the present time (profits lock-in), rather than future potential profits (delayed gratification, with the associated risk -- which appears very high if they don't understand how Bitcoin works). So, yes, I can understand their way of thinking, and I know that it may cause friction if they know certain things about coins and wallets and such. So, I choose to keep it to myself, and only disclose what is needed to justify certain actions.
I'm single right now. My family members know I'm into BTC, my father already wants me to sell and tells it all the time, and he's not interested in getting any money, he thinks it would be good for me...
Let's say I find a woman one day, when things get serious/kids are involved I would want her to know about BTC, the plan is that I would live off my stash by then so I'm not going to pretend I still have a job (well, maybe, but for other reasons, like having "me time" ), however I'm thinking telling her the real size of my stash would be a bad idea. So my idea, giving her a smaller number, half, or a third (my stash isn't that big that it would make sense to stop working if I only had a lot less, until BTC is much higher of course). Not just saying but having the rest in a colder wallet and not touching it, and really using the fake number as if it was real. That way the lying is minimal.
What do you think ?