Thanks bth for sharing yoour thoughta and @Z-tight for the link. I was effectively feeling lost and overwhelmed by the quantity of threads and the extensive number of pages they keep rolling on. I'll keep clicking and reading
Like i said, about the link i shared, it is genrally about services in bitcointalk and the users offering them, since you are interested in escrow services, there is no need to read all of the topic, just scroll down to 'escrow services' and see the users actively offering it.
and I'm interested in the topic and the trust build-in system that bitcointalk enables.
There are reputable users in this forum, but take note that the forum itself does not in itself 'endorse' members offering one service or the other. You have to do your own research before dealing with anyone, because if you get scammed, the forum does not moderate things like that.