Forget about me for a moment and put yourself in my shoe, I am sure there are family men and women on here, what will you plan to do if you are in my shoes right now?
If I had those resources like yours, I wouldn't worry at all. If I know that I can sustain my kid until she grows up, then there is no problem to be worried about. Just prepare for the birth of your partner so that you won't have any trouble at that time,e and then the rest will depend on how things go. As I am saying, if you have resources, then there is nothing to worry about. You have to be a good father, a good provider so that your kid will go stress free after seeing this world.