There are two types of pain to deal with when gambling and losing.
1. The first one is the money you risk and lose.
2. When the money you almost win is very big.
Normally it is a bit more tricky to win large amount with small amount of money, but we move, how about you?
Both are painful to bear for gamblers, and the majority have faced this situation before, and it's a challenge to move on from these two scenarios.
i think that the second one may be more painful or more harder to move on from simply because you can go down a spiral of what if's and you will never even know what could have happened if xyz did not happen
the point is that it is harder to move on from hypothetical things because you always get lost in your imagination and you might end up trying to recreate the bet you just had