There is nothing wrong in having self validation. They worked hard for their money, they got the money so it is not a problem. If you think it is a problem then get the money first and we will see how you respond to things. The rich has bigger things to think about in life. From how to get strong allies like friend and business partners. Dont expect them to care for lesser things. Dont also expect them to be in a gathering of the poor because they cant. The poor has limited opportunities for them. But if they see someone who has big idea for business they can have a good discussion with him/her not minding if he is poor or not. That is one way you will see the rich come so low to have a good discussion with a poor person.