Few days ago as I was browsing through social media I saw a lady lamenting of how her parents never planned their life and just gave birth to a lot of children and the worst part is that they don't even bother taking care of the children in terms of education and their welfare, stating that the parents shifts their responsibilities to her since she is the older one and is doing well for her self, everything her siblings needs she provides the lady was so bittered.

1 so I want to ask is it right for parents to shift responsibility of taking care of their family to their own children

2 or people shouldn't get married if they are not ready financially?


For me I think if you are not ready financial you should not go in to marriage and also you should have family planning with you partner not to come and be giving birth to children you know you would not take care of by then increasing the crime rate of this country, I also think if you have the capacity to take care of your siblings do so even do your parents caused it.