Both are quite painful because in principle we cannot have the money, it's just that the method that makes the money disappear in slightly different activities. Usually when we bet something but it doesn't go according to plan, the bet will end up losing a lot of money, and vice versa with almost winning a big bet but in the end we can't achieve it.

It makes no difference to me because both of them don't give us victory, in gambling some people think they can make big profits using small capital, but for me that is impossible even if you use any method.