When I discuss the wide range of gambling and betting with friends who are not on the forum, I often notice their flawed thinking. If it were just once, I would not have given it a thought but when their flawed thinking about gambling comes up over and over again it makes me torn between wanting to help them change the way they think or just leaving them to continue with such thinking until some major gambling experience happens and changes it for them. Some type of this flawed thinking is borrowing money from loan apps to gamble thinking that when they win they will pay back the loan and its interest and keep the rest for themselves. They call this gambling, with other people's money. Another flawed thinking is their belief that paid between groups will make them become millionaires faster than if they are not in the paid group. There are others like this.
Change is one of the most difficult task to achieve doing in life, as simple as it is, the same way in reality it becomes more difficult to do, people have their different perspective of what gambling mean to them and how they want to take it, which no matter how we talk to convince them, it may change nothing about their take on gambling, until some of them have the conviction by themselves before changing their approach or narrative in respect to gambling, when dealing with people like this, i don't waste my effort to change them, though i may say what i needed to say in convincing them, but its up to them to yielded on it or not.