Actually, in this case, for me, it depends on the condition and readiness of the child himself. Although this method is certainly good, it cannot be denied that not every child has the same understanding, so we also need to be a gentle figure so that the future goals that we hope for the child to do are not misinterpreted by harsh education.
This does not mean that we have to obey all the wishes of the child, but on the other hand, we also do not want to mature the child, but in the end we also have to wait and see whether our child is ready or not with all the rules that we have prepared to make his future better so that what we think is best for the child does not actually make them distant from us as parents because they feel constrained and oppressed.
Not a few parents who force their will as if they can prepare the best for their children in the future which ends with children who are mentally disturbed because they are unable to cope with the demands of their parents. For me, educating children is quite flexible because on the one hand there must be firmness but on the other hand we must also try to create a comfortable space so that children are not burdened and that is the role of parents because we only provide the best facilities as a form of our love and responsibility for our children but we cannot immediately regulate the future as a whole because children also when they have a transition phase to adolescence or adulthood they can determine their life goals and as much as possible from the beginning we apply good parenting patterns so that children can know the goals they want to achieve without the need for our intervention to direct them as a whole.