I have a job that makes me to be too busy and whenever I close from work I feel so tired, and I don't even have the energy to login my forum account. The only time I'm free is on weekends and my family is large, if even you want to do something else you may get distracted.
I only have one thing to say in this regards, when you have something that is so important to you, you’ll try and create time no matter the busy schedule you have in order to meet up with discussions here. You don’t have to post most often when you come online, but going through some informative posts and replies can help better your knowledge here. It makes you want to be part of the forum and become actively available at the right time.
I want to know how you use the forum. Can you engage in forum discussion when you are in the midst of people that your attention can be called at anytime. Or you use the forum when you are free alone, like in the midnight when every where is quiet.
Because I know some forum discussion needs critical thinking and if you are distracted it can decline the quality of your discussion.
I can relate what you’re trying to say and I have also been in that circumstance before. I am the type of person that don’t like to feel distracted when I’m in the forum and want to post a reply to a comment or join a discussion, been distracted can make me not to get the right thing i have in mind to put down. Even when in the midst of people, I can still write well just that I might skip some vital things I needed to put down in the reply which if I was all alone and in a quite place, I’ll get to comment well and give the best reply I have to a discussion.